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Women’s empowerment and mischief is not one! Ways to survive the fitna!

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Update: Sunday, October 3, 2021


Women’s empowerment and mischief is not one! Ways to survive the fitna!

Mohammad Olid Siddiqui Talukder: There was a discussion about Bangladesh at one time. After all, the country is very conservative. In this country, girls do not work, they cannot. The World Bank has given much importance to the role of NGOs in working on women’s empowerment. If we talk about that time, it can be said that the girls who were working in the villages at that time for a relatively high salary did not have basic education. Since these NGOs work with so-called micro-credit, they do not need much education. At the same time, there was a national debate about the role of these girls. That’s when the question arose about their personal life. This time is actually the time of a difficult time in the politics of Bangladesh. Military dictatorship was in full swing then. People didn’t really have much to think or do. Needless to say, there was a gradual change of heart among those who had received the new money. Somewhere husband changed, somewhere new love, somewhere foreign. All these things were happening. Basically, the new money has erased the long-standing ‘blindness’ of many. They began to understand in a new way. And this also happens in the midst of new confusion. Just as cows do not judge without breaking the dam, so a kind of anti-religion enters the society in the name of reform. A section of those who became desperate to prove themselves more so-called progressives began to assert women in the name of so-called progress. Hits on marriage. The society wants to break the family. In the name of enslaving women to their so-called “will”, they are basically enslaved by the new rulers. Money on the one hand and the traditional system on the other. Basically, in economically poor countries like ours, just as the Baniyas once bought political chastity for money, so the new money is breaking the barrier of social chastity and giving birth to a new concept. In a sense, many may call it a social revolution. I think there was no alternative. Let me remind you of this small incident before moving on to the main topic. Brain Fantasy was a sensational drama on BTV. The doctors decided to make one together. Both the parties also agreed but it was seen that the patient escaped before he was cured even though he was medically healed. The next incident was in the court. Basically, a kind of puzzle has been circulating in our country since the Mughal period. The British came to plunder the country when the Industrial Revolution had taken place in their country. The British ushered in the so-called modern age in India, which was rooted in the female addiction, to nurture the neo-rich class that was born out of the misery of the common people of the country as a result of the abolition of the peasant-friendly land system and the introduction of the exploitative land system. They were the first to legally introduce prostitution. How to enroll in prostitution in the society, how it was spread or is happening is now at the fingertips of many. Simply put, even if the law mentioned voluntary words, the whole thing would have been compulsory. The big issue in these cases is the activation of an organized cycle. In Bengali literature, Sharat Chandra is the only one who has written heart-wrenching novels about the love power of prostitutes. However, there is no evidence that they have made any movement for the eviction of prostitutes or the need for eviction. The movement to introduce child marriage against widows is well known but there is no movement in the society to prevent prostitution. Although prostitution is discouraged in our constitution. However, prostitution is no longer in a written form but is spreading in various ways. The situation of those who want to curb prostitution while maintaining the existing reality is that “you have pierced with five voices, you have destroyed the same / you have spread the world in the middle.”
There is no opportunity to underestimate the empowerment of women to keep the society active. What is meant by this empowerment is that there can be many controversies and many people can raise various issues. Let me say the simple thing first. Qualification is the key issue. In fact, now is the time to look at how much we have paid attention to this aspect. Men’s attraction to women is eternal. There is no chance of avoiding it. The main event is initiated by men. Generally, when we get married, women just consent. The situation is the same in all cases. In fact, we use it to seduce women and deceive them when they are caught. Since women are the image of the earth, they cannot be avoided. I tell happy stories and enjoy the joy of selling at gatherings. But I don’t even think about who or what kicked them out of their house. Yes, of course, at the present time, I can’t wait to say that. It is easy to discuss what or what you see in the street market. Take a look. The only thing that happened that day was the evil eye of a senior police officer towards a constable or a sweeper woman. In the political arena of the country, the female cadres have provided the girls to please the so-called bosses. Even now, it has not been settled yet.

What can be found in any section of society at the present time where this anti-social malpractice does not exist or has no effect. At one time it was said that the wife of DC SP OC is now called the husband of DC SP OC in many fields. Although gender has changed in the place of power, it cannot be said that the situation has changed. But why? If there is any incident, the response goes around. A series of activities can be seen in a hurry. But let us forget what the issues were. Busy showing people. In fact, this is not the way to solve the problem.
A daily nicely said everything comes together whenever the names of influential people come up. In fact, it seems to be valid for them and illegal for Nabu-Chhabu. To put it bluntly, this kind of malpractice exists in our political decisions. Its name is not progress but mischief.

Now there is less opportunity to write many things. However, not to say, I want to highlight. Martyr President Ziaur Rahman, the great herald of independence, was sincere about the empowerment of women in independent Bangladesh. Those who will make a neutral analysis must say that his life was free from such mischief. She has worked for the awakening of women in this country. Personal life was flawless. Needless to say, women are helpless. They like to rely. That’s why it’s important to help them move forward. But of course it is inconsistent to give precedence to personal interests or to fuel temptation. Probably because of the unscrupulous role we are playing in the society today immoral infection is spreading. If it is not strict in its political decisions, it will not be able to play any role in preventing empowerment and corruption. I would like to remind everyone that such atrocities have increased during the dictatorial regime including the military dictatorship. Real accountability is able to play a significant role in preventing such malpractices.

I am drawing the attention of the reader to some of the sayings of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) in Islam and hadeeth to save us from the fitna of the present time.

Narrated Usama bin Zayd: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “After my death, I am not leaving any fitnah that is more harmful to men than to women.”
® (Ahmad, Bukhari 5098, Muslim 6122, Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah)

Narrated by Abu Saeed Khudri (R), the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “The world is lush and green. God has made you caliphs in it, so that He may see how you act. So beware of the world and women. And know that the first tribulation of the Children of Israel was centered on women. ”
® (Ahmad, Muslim 2642, Tirmidhi 2191, Ibn Majah 4000)

Narrated by Abu Hurairah, the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, “Do not forbid the servants of Allah to come to the mosque, but let them come simply without using perfume.”
® (Ahmad 9845, Abu Dawood 575, Sahihul Jame ‘8456)
Narrated Ibn ‘Umar: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “If there is a bad omen in something, it is in the woman, the house and the horse.”
® (Bukhari 5094, Muslim 5945)

কিছু Some Ways to Survive Women’s Fetnaঃ

Know that this life is a test. This test is very difficult and dangerous. That is why a little carelessness on the way or a small mistake often leads to great danger; Which people may never have imagined. That is why we should always be vigilant and repent again and again with a pure heart towards Allah. May Allah protect us all, Amen.

Imam Ibn Jawzi (may Allah have mercy on him) said, “There are different types of atonement for women’s love and women’s addiction. Sometimes you have to suffer, sometimes late, sometimes it is revealed, sometimes it is not revealed. Again, there are some punishments that the victim does not even understand. But the biggest punishment is being given
Forgetting God and losing faith.
Women’s hearts die because of addiction and sin,
As a result, he is not able to taste the prayers with Allah.
The Holy Quran does not reside in his heart.
Other acts of worship, including istighfar, seem meaningless to him.
There are many more religious degenerations, which slowly consume him, which he himself may not even realize.
The darkness of sin spreads across the horizon of his heart.
His inner vision is destroyed, which affects his body as well. For example, the eyesight goes away, the health deteriorates, and so on. ”

Therefore, one should repent as soon as he realizes the addiction of sin in his heart, perhaps this will remove the impending danger. ”

Jammul Hawa: 216.

However, for all the religious brothers who have fallen victim to the poisonous virus called love and lost their religion and the world, here is a brief piece of advice.

(1) If you are fit and ready to get married right now, look at point two. And if it is not possible for you to get married at this moment according to the judgment of Taqwadir prescribed by Allah, then repent from love, illicit communication and relationship. Stop all communication, talking, meeting with mahram women of Gai. Keep more and more naafil fasts for self-control and self-purification. Concentrate on acquiring good deeds and knowledge. Cry and pray to Allah for self-purification and holiness. Try to keep the soul calm and pure by doing more and more supererogatory worship and recitation of the Qur’an.

(2) If it is possible for you to get married and if the girl has the minimum religious and moral character to get married, then after the Istikhara Salat, send a marriage proposal to the girl’s father or a legitimate guardian. If the girl’s father agrees to marry, then arrange the marriage in a lawful manner without delay saying Alha’madulillah.

(3) If the girl’s father does not agree, then come back from there. Be patient and pray to Allah, if it is not written in your destiny to marry this girl, or if marrying this girl is unlucky for you, then may Allah remove the love for this girl from your heart. Pray for your good life partner. And keep in mind, do not try to communicate in any way with the lover. This will damage the religion and the world of both of you.

Author: Executive Editor Dainik Apan Alo Special Correspondent: O – Member DUJ |

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